Did I totally screw this up w/contacting nightmare bridesmaid?

same answer i gave you before....it is always good to be sweet. sounding nervous is no big deal. if she is that involved with herself she will probably not even notice you sounded nervous. always be sweet when dealing with problem people as a bride. people do not have to earn our being sweet to them. that is always the best way to handle a problem since a bride is supposed to be gracious at all times.