Life tragedy with bangladeshi man?

my story is bit too long ,let me make it short and informative basically i am love with this Bangladeshi man from 2007.but he admits he is still madly in love with me too .but between 2007 and 2011 till now life was hell but i was happy with him ever so much even though we had bit of ups and downs of our relationship.but the things which i found out about him makes him think he is spoiling my life .read on things i found out about him 1)he is from bangladesh ,jessore,jhikargacha 2)he is married and got two kids ,which he had hidden from me for past three years but when i found out he admitted he had leid to me but still tells me he loves me wants to be with me and marry me he promised he will never go back to his wife becoz she is bad etc and now the kids have grown old like 13 and 10 yrs .3)he took 10,000 pounds from me and he said to me this money was for our new house deposit when we get marry and buy a new house which he planned to keep in bangladesh and he said anytime he could bring it back .4)found out he was illigal in this country .from past 12 years have applied to hm office under asylum seeking .5)got pregnant twice for him but he managed to convince me that it was not the time for kids frist we need get marry and save some money for kids and get house blah blah etc.done abortions twice.intially i got introduced to him by my close friend.she suggested that i marry him.so later she changed her mind she didnt want us to go further.so i really dont know whats going on what actually he is planning to do next .i also got numbers for his mum and brother i speak to them too.but whenever i tried to speak about his past he gets so hyper and just dont want to talk about it ,what can i do ,,how can i find out what kind of guy he was in his past what all he did ,and really if his marriage is broken down ,,,trying to get to speak to his wife to ask her if there was divorce done or still are they married or what its been so complicated ...is there anybody from bangladesh who can help me find out ,,,please or any advise or suggestion to slove this tagedy in my life ,,further to avoid the future troubles from him or whether if he is really telling the truth and really loves please please ..help me ..